A lot of guys out there always goof on their first date; the reason is not far-fetched, though. There is always this pressure to be open, funny, witty and insightful; but trust me when I say this can ruin your chances of hanging out for a second date.
Except you are deliberately hooking up with a whore or a slut, never talk about sex, or how good you are in bed. This would only ruin your chances of meeting up for a second date. Forget about sex and make her the object of your focus. I know this sounds simple but a lot of dudes have failed by towing this line.
I know you want to appear like a stud, but never admit to a woman on a first date how much you are good at drinking and how many times you have closed a bar, this would give her the impression that you are just a cheapish drunkard who has nothing to offer other than liquor, trust me, you will never get a second date.
Why she is single
Never ask a lady why she has been single especially on the first date, this irks the hell out of them, ‘we have all been single at one point in our life, so what’s the big deal, for all I care you are single too.’ This might ruin your opportunity to get a second date.